We found a great article over at COMPLEX and we felt it needed some discussion.
Tabatha McGurr of Married To The Mob blog wrote an article on Why Men Love To “Save” Promiscuous Women. The article was highly entertaining and raised some good points. So we wanted to let the readers give their opinion. Read some of the major points from this article and then weigh in for yourself on our poll.
YOU LISTEN TO TOO MUCH DRAKE
Aubrey might have some of you dudes fooled into thinking that exclusivity with an in-demand dime is possible, but that doesn’t mean you can trick that broad into feeling the same way. Hot women aren’t oblivious to their appearance—they know they look good and that guys want them, so seeing all of the different offers come along is like a fun waiting game. The majority of decent girls will go for whichever dude seems the sweetest or most genuine, but there’s definitely a select few out there just waiting for an opportunity to prey and hustle on your a**…
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INSECURITY IS A MOTHER****
If you’re searching for someone you can “save,” then you’re in need of some salvation yourself. One huge reason to seek out someone “flawed” or with a crazy past is so you can feel superior to them and mask your own issues with theirs. We usually hope to find people that bring us positivity and enrich us, so looking to rescue a girl with tons of emotional baggage means there’s something wrong with you. It’s like coming to the aid of a wounded animal and then keeping it captive in return. Guys act like they’re helping the girl out, encouraging her to divulge her secrets and demons only to reproach her for it in the end…
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NO CUFFING IN THE CHAMPAGNE ROOM
The only guys that a stripper is seriously messing with are rappers and other high-profile type dudes, not some desperate a** John who spends every one of his paychecks in the champagne room. Sure, she might let you drive her home and buy her expensive things, maybe even hit it if you’re lucky, but none of that is going down without financial reciprocation anyway, so what’s the point?…
Why Do Men Love To “Save” Promiscuous Women?THE ALPHA MALE WANTS THE TROPHY
…These types of guys entice chicks with the allure of materialistic stuff and someone to confide in, and then bring them out to parties and events where they’re shown off like prized little status boosters. They don’t call ‘em Trophy Wives for nothing. Initially, it seems like a win/win because the dude is happy that he gets to flex and show his chick off while she gets her little ego trip from being put on display, but that’s only fun for so long…
