Have you ever become bored after dating someone for a while because they moved really slowly in getting to know you, wanting to see you again, or committing to an exclusive relationship with you? Did you hope that that person would move faster because, for you, the excitement was wearing off? I have. No, you are not insane, impatient or abnormal! Okay, maybe a little impatient, but that’s perfectly fine.
Perhaps you have met someone who moved too fast? You wanted to say, “Whoa! Slow down!” Maybe that person wanted to go so fast that you were a little scared. I have been in this boat too.
Both scenarios are common and very normal in the dating world right now. The good news is that there are men and women who are fast movers and some who are slow movers. One is not better or worse than the other. They are just different.