“No relationship is destroyed by the outside in. All relationships disintegrate from the inside out.”
Iyanla Vanzant is going to keep it 100 no matter whose feelings she hurts.
This time the life coach is speaking her truth on the divorce between Tamar Braxton and Vincent Herbert. Tamar was on “The View” last week talking about her divorce and how her friends help to spread rumors about her husband. Tamar took ownership of telling her friends “too much of my business,” as she said to the ladies.
However, Iyanla says thought that sounds cute, relationships are destroyed from the inside out.
“No relationship is destroyed by the outside in. All relationships disintegrate from the inside out. There is something in the relationship that is in break down, or that is failing to operating accordingly. If there is a strong enough infrastructure, no matter what comes at the relationship, it will be able to survive.”
Instead of hopping in your friend’s business, Iyanla says the best thing you can do is pray for your friend.
“Sometimes it’s difficult watching a loved one hit rock bottom but then you have to remember it’s God who made the rock.So while to us it looks dramatic and unnecessary there is something this person is learning. So our job as bystanders is to call forth the highest and the greatest good, and not get caught up in the details. Don’t get caught up in the fact that he is ‘boo boo the fool’ and she’s madly in love with him. Let’s surround her in light. Let’s pray while she’s learning this lesson she doesn’t get physically harmed or injured. Let’s call forth the good in her. Let’s call forth the good in him.”
Video: The View