Jackrabbit Sex
Oh, the fast, wham-bam-thank you-man sex! It’s not something that I miss but it is a part of dating a man that’s younger. Not that men who are in their 30s aren’t sometimes terrible in bed. But they are more open to communicating about what feels good (or doesn’t). It all comes down to ego. Few youngling wants to learn that they’re not as hot in bed as their former girlfriend once claimed (she’s 21 – what do you expect?!). You will suffer nightly, and they may still see themselves as less than studs.
Their Non-Committal Ways
This may be okay with some cougars but it was an issue for me. Even though I was dating youngins, I wanted a committed relationship. Most 21-year-old’s just want to “chill” and party on at dive bar and clubs. I get it. I was young once. But now, not so much. I want a committed and loving relationship with a partner, not a babysitting job or a game of relationship limbo. I want to cuddle on the couch with a glass of wine, not go to frat row and chug a kegger. This old lady is ready for old and stable love. Whatever has become of me.
Confessions of a Super Cougar: Why I Stopped Dating Younger MenĀ was originally published on wzakcleveland.com
